I liked this blog and thought I would repost for those of you following/reading me. It’s an oldie but a goodie.
This is “Bob” and my baby girl, Tanya back in 1981. He was my step-dad but the only “dad” I knew growing up. Bob died in 1995, but I can still hear him saying,
Do as I say, not as I do
!! I once had a psychologist tell me that when I had a thought ie; (message, life lesson) playing over and over in my head, that I should ask myself
whose voice it is
so I would be able to better judge it’s truth or validity. It’s been my experience that upon entering adolesence we begin to question the philosphy of our parents; their belief systems etc; Therefore when I was told
you need to…, or you should have…,
my come back was often,
why? you don’t do that,
or
you’ve always…
and I would hear,
DO AS I SAY, NOT AS I DO!!
Isn’t that the very…
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