I just don’t understand! Warning: Controversial subject

I am re-blogging this one…because I feel so strongly about this topic. I come into contact with people every day that want to remain in their victimization – I just don’t see the point!! Life is too short!


Let me first say that this is hindsight talking. It has taken many years of soul searching, God seeking and therapy to reach this place but that being said:

I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU CHOOSE TO REMAIN STUCK!! I remember back in the late eighties or early nineties saying that to the Christian counselor I had sought help from. He asked me “how does that make you feel?” I replied, “I feel stuck!” His next question to me was “what do you need to do to feel unstuck?” And then, rather than giving me the answer he let me work it out in my own way and in my own time. He was an EXCELLENT COUNSELOR and I will be forever grateful for the many sessions that I had with him. He really helped me!

Why do you continue to blame your past for why you are the way…

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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Angel
    May 04, 2014 @ 15:13:30

    I agree


    • bittygirl51
      May 04, 2014 @ 21:47:40

      Ha! This was a test, Angel…(not really), but I knew I would eventually post something you couldn’t resist commenting on! LOL Love ya, girl! Hope your day is blessed.


  2. augielife
    May 04, 2014 @ 18:10:05

    Amen Sister!


    • bittygirl51
      May 04, 2014 @ 21:50:25

      Back at ya, Sis! I just had to say it again. It seems like I’m constantly dealing with people who wanna remain stuck in the muck! I try to lovingly show them the error of their ways..but sometimes unfortunately, it falls on deaf ears and all I can do is pray for them. I hope that doesn’t sound “holier than thou”…it’s not at all intended to. I’ve traveled that road – just don’t want to travel it any longer.


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